How to Court a Girl - Choosing your Persona
Before you even begin think of how to court a girl, a very important question you will need to ask yourself is who you are. If you surf the web for ideas on how to attract women, may strategies revolve around projecting yourself as being cocky, arrogant or even a bad ass. Do they work? They definitely do, but only on certain types of women. But the key is, do you want to change your whole persona, just to court a girl? Or more importantly, is it necessary?
Before you make that decision, here are some considerations
The key to success with any personality type is consistency. If you are faking it, girls will likely see through you. Consistency also means that if you wish to transform your personality type, it will have to become a part of your lifestyle e.g. it will mean changing too the types of people you meet with and befriend, the places you hang out in etc.
Courtship isn’t the be all and end all. If the girl you successfully courted is right for you and you decide to settle down with her, are you prepared to continue that chosen lifestyle for the rest of your relationship with her? Or would you rather be yourself?
Given the above, my personal thoughts are that while I love women, changing my persona and lifestyle will be too much a sacrifice. Hence, my take on this is to choose a persona that best reflects who you really are and more importantly, who you want to be. It you never intended to be a cocky bad ass all your life than please don’t; it’s not worth it and not there are other types of personality traits that attract women anyway. For example, here is a list of personality types women are generally attracted to:
1. Rich and Successful Type
2. Intellectual Type
3. Charismatic and Confident Type
4 Creative and Artistic Type
5. Humorous and Fun Type
6. Dominant Type
7. Adventurous and Fun Type
8. Strong Athletic Type
9, Cocky and Arrogant Type
10. Bad Boy Type
This list is by no means exhaustive but simply goes to show that there are many options to choose from and that there is no need to force a certain personality type on yourself for the sake of courting girls.
Personally, my favorite is the cool, charismatic and confident type of guy and that is because that was what had I wanted to be, both in my social and professional life, since I was a teenager.
I began working on it while still in school and over the years, I have had my fair share of success with the women I like.
If are interested in my take on attracting girls, do visit my blog, How to Court a Girl.
Before you make that decision, here are some considerations
The key to success with any personality type is consistency. If you are faking it, girls will likely see through you. Consistency also means that if you wish to transform your personality type, it will have to become a part of your lifestyle e.g. it will mean changing too the types of people you meet with and befriend, the places you hang out in etc.
Courtship isn’t the be all and end all. If the girl you successfully courted is right for you and you decide to settle down with her, are you prepared to continue that chosen lifestyle for the rest of your relationship with her? Or would you rather be yourself?
Given the above, my personal thoughts are that while I love women, changing my persona and lifestyle will be too much a sacrifice. Hence, my take on this is to choose a persona that best reflects who you really are and more importantly, who you want to be. It you never intended to be a cocky bad ass all your life than please don’t; it’s not worth it and not there are other types of personality traits that attract women anyway. For example, here is a list of personality types women are generally attracted to:
1. Rich and Successful Type
2. Intellectual Type
3. Charismatic and Confident Type
4 Creative and Artistic Type
5. Humorous and Fun Type
6. Dominant Type
7. Adventurous and Fun Type
8. Strong Athletic Type
9, Cocky and Arrogant Type
10. Bad Boy Type
This list is by no means exhaustive but simply goes to show that there are many options to choose from and that there is no need to force a certain personality type on yourself for the sake of courting girls.
Personally, my favorite is the cool, charismatic and confident type of guy and that is because that was what had I wanted to be, both in my social and professional life, since I was a teenager.
I began working on it while still in school and over the years, I have had my fair share of success with the women I like.
If are interested in my take on attracting girls, do visit my blog, How to Court a Girl.